During my short stint at the mother of all planets aka planet earth I have been fortunate to see a few kinds of love :) . Life is amusing, erratic and to top it up it is also culpable. On the other hand, love is heart-rending, plesant, cherished, loathed and also is a testimonial of personal feelings for another human beings/things/animals.
So coming back to the topic, let me help you idenify the kinds of love in your life:
* Puppy love-
o Sentence: “Awwww! I love the way he looks at me. My cutie pie”, exclaimed Anita at the mention of Manoj’s name by his friends.
o Nicknames: Angel, honey bun, babyface, blossom etc.
o Where can it be found? : Schools, colleges, offices…. I will be damned if you don’t find it EVERYWHERE.
o Condition of the affected parties: New love, infatuated, both are on cloud nine.
o Critic’s opinion- This is the real eye opener. You start believing in LOVE, you trust the person, you want to be with him ALL the time, it is break from the heavy-duty books, nagging friends and the allied.
o Suggestions for the couple: Make the most of it. If you are heart broken, this can be a refreshing break ;)
o Suggestions for the friends: Stay away, behave yourself and give them a break.
* Possessive Love-
*
o Sentence: “I heard you talked to Nakul. Why was he hugging you so tight? I have told you I don’t like it.”, screamed Manoj at Anita.
o Nicknames: Here nicks seem to vanish somehow.
o Where can be found: They are discreet. But when agitated, can be found anywhere.
o Condition of affected parties: The possessive is paranoid and the possessed is choaked. It can be an abusive relationship too.
o Critic’s opinion: Dear possessed, please run far far away. The possessor thinks you are his/her property. Try to maintain a distinct line in the relationship.
o Suggestions for the couple: Discuss, take couple therepy, seek help, don’t be oppressed, love is meant to be cherished- Keep it that way :)
o Suggestions to the friends: Any behaviour that you believe is NOT right, please point it out to the couple. Offer help, but do not fiddle with the topic, nor give wrong suggestions.
* Ex- Love-
o Sentence: “I checked her facebook status, she is happily married.”, Manoj reminded his friends after 3 years of their break up. Or “Anita is always my first love, no one can take her place.” said Manoj to Divya [the marriage prospect].
o Nicknames- Slangs mostly. But if someone else uses the words you use, the agitation is unbearable.
o Where can be found: Usually after drunk soujourns, the heart brokens texts, call, wail, create a scene etc.
o Condition of affected party: If the person who has moved on does not know about the other person, he/she lives happily ever after. In case they know, they are always worried about the consequence, turbulation the heart broken party may cause etc. The heart broken person is depressed, extrapolates evrythihng, may even scheme, hurt himself etc. There are normal cases too where the heart broken person refuses to move on, but does not hurt himself or others.
o Critic’s opinion: This is a critical condition. Usually the person is in denial. Even if he/she does not harm they are hurting really bad.
o Suggestion for the couple: Try to part on a good note. If it is not possible, keep your other better half well informed [in you can]. If even this is not possible, try talking to your ex and explain how important the new person is in your life and you would not want to hurt him/her.
o Suggestion to the friends: Please do not fuel the anger. Read the hurt pattern and nuances; try to remove the elements that increase the pain.
* Childhood sweethearts Love:
o Sentence: “Ever thine, ever mine, ever ours.”
o Nicknames: Usually people get comfortable with the names that are used over the years, it can be the names used during the puppy love.
o Where can be found: Happily settled in their lives even if not prefessionally then atleast with each other. They have come a long way, we all have such examples in our lives and all we can do is be happy for them.
o Condition of the affected parties: They are in harmony with each other. They understand the needs, wishes and hopes of the other person. Each has fine-tuned the other to make the journey of life a smooth ride.
o Critic’s opinion: Here even the critic shall wish for a love like this.
o Suggestion to the couple: Let the love flow and make it contagious :)
o Suggestion to the friends: Kuch seekho gadhon :P
Monday, February 21, 2011
Ghalib
Few of my fav Ghalib couplets:
Ragon mein daudte phirne ke hum nahi Qaayal, Jab aankh hi se naa tapkaa to phir lahoo kyaa hai
–
Chipak raha hai badan par lahoo se pairaahan hamaare jeb ko ab haajat-e-rafoo kya hai
–
aah ko chaahiye ik ‘umr asar hone tak, kaun jeeta hai teree zulf ke sar hone tak ?
–
ishq mujhko nahi, wehshat hi sahi, meri wehshat, teri shohrat hi sah
–
hazaaron khwahishain aisee ke har khwahish pe dam nikle, bohot nikle mere armaan lekin fir bhi kam nikle
–
kahaan maikhaane ka darwaaza ‘Ghalib’ aur kahaan waaiz, par itana jaante hain kal wo jaata tha ke ham nikle
–
ye na thi hamaari qismat ke wisaal-e-yaar hota, agar aur jeete rehte yahi intezaar hota
–
dil-e-naadaan tujhe huaa kya hai ? aakhir is dard ki dawa kya hai, hamko unse wafa ki hai ummeed, jo nahi jaante wafa kya hai
–
unke dekhe se jo aa jaati hai mooh par raunaq, wo samajhte hain ke beemaar ka haal achcha hai
–
humko maaloom hai jannat ki haqeeqat lekin, dil ko khush rakhne ko ‘ghalib’ ye khayaal achcha hai
–
hui muddat ke ‘ghalib’ mar gaya par yaad aata hai, wo har ek baat pe kehana, ke yoon hota toh kya hota?
–
Ragon mein daudte phirne ke hum nahi Qaayal, Jab aankh hi se naa tapkaa to phir lahoo kyaa hai
–
Chipak raha hai badan par lahoo se pairaahan hamaare jeb ko ab haajat-e-rafoo kya hai
–
aah ko chaahiye ik ‘umr asar hone tak, kaun jeeta hai teree zulf ke sar hone tak ?
–
ishq mujhko nahi, wehshat hi sahi, meri wehshat, teri shohrat hi sah
–
hazaaron khwahishain aisee ke har khwahish pe dam nikle, bohot nikle mere armaan lekin fir bhi kam nikle
–
kahaan maikhaane ka darwaaza ‘Ghalib’ aur kahaan waaiz, par itana jaante hain kal wo jaata tha ke ham nikle
–
ye na thi hamaari qismat ke wisaal-e-yaar hota, agar aur jeete rehte yahi intezaar hota
–
dil-e-naadaan tujhe huaa kya hai ? aakhir is dard ki dawa kya hai, hamko unse wafa ki hai ummeed, jo nahi jaante wafa kya hai
–
unke dekhe se jo aa jaati hai mooh par raunaq, wo samajhte hain ke beemaar ka haal achcha hai
–
humko maaloom hai jannat ki haqeeqat lekin, dil ko khush rakhne ko ‘ghalib’ ye khayaal achcha hai
–
hui muddat ke ‘ghalib’ mar gaya par yaad aata hai, wo har ek baat pe kehana, ke yoon hota toh kya hota?
–
Thursday, February 17, 2011
IF.....
IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
' Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Chaha tha jise woh mila hi nahin
chaha tha jise woh mila hi nahin
lakh koshish ki lekin yeh fasla mitta hi nahin
khuda se jholi phela k manga tha usse
khuda ne meri kissi dua ko suna hi hani
her ek se pocha terey na milney ka sabab
her ek ne bataya woh terey liye bana hi nahin
kitni shidat se chaha tha aur woh kissi aur ka ho gaya
shayad is jahan mein wafa ka silla hi nahin
merey humnasheen merey hum nawan yeh dua hai koi gila nahin
tujhe zindagi mein woh sukon miley jo mujhe kabhi mila hi nahin
lakh koshish ki lekin yeh fasla mitta hi nahin
khuda se jholi phela k manga tha usse
khuda ne meri kissi dua ko suna hi hani
her ek se pocha terey na milney ka sabab
her ek ne bataya woh terey liye bana hi nahin
kitni shidat se chaha tha aur woh kissi aur ka ho gaya
shayad is jahan mein wafa ka silla hi nahin
merey humnasheen merey hum nawan yeh dua hai koi gila nahin
tujhe zindagi mein woh sukon miley jo mujhe kabhi mila hi nahin
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
open gmail directly in basic HTML mode
How many of you have been stuck on a low bandwidth internet connection and your Gmail won't just open. It just loads and shows you a blank page. This happens when you are accessing gmail from a low bandwidth connection and/or a crappy PC. Gmail just shows loading for second time and man it is stuck. The remedy at that moment is to switch to the basic HTML view and check your mail. But what if it doesn't show you "Switch to basic HTML view" option after loading!!!
So here's the remedy. Sign into gmail and let it load. If it fully loads well and good but if it takes time or gets stuck just paste the following code into the address bar
http://mail.google.com/mail/?ui=html&zy=d
and Voila the Gmail opens in basic html view. Some features like chat may be disabled but You'll have to suffice with that.
So here's the remedy. Sign into gmail and let it load. If it fully loads well and good but if it takes time or gets stuck just paste the following code into the address bar
http://mail.google.com/mail/?ui=html&zy=d
and Voila the Gmail opens in basic html view. Some features like chat may be disabled but You'll have to suffice with that.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Broken heart messages
☻I remember him not as the
one who broke my heart.
But I remember him as the
one who teach me
how to live with a broken heart.
☻I cannot erase from my heart
sweet memories of you
thy tongue sharp as a dart
my poor heart eschew.
☻Everyone in your life
will hurt you sooner or later.
But you will have to decide.
What is more important?
The Pain Or The Person…??
☻Have u ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit
and u just pull the scar off of it over and over again...
☻I know,
She was the the most prestigious GIFT.
I ever received!
But!
Sometimes I really feel
I was just a GAME she played!
☻Real Tears Are Not Those
That Fall From Eyes
And Cover The Face,
But Those That Fall From Heart
And Cover The Soul …
☻So I guess that I'm da loser
Cause u hav found some1 new
But I'm still here, still all alone
Just crying over u
☻When I was a kid.
I wanted to grow up soon.
Now that I grown up,
I realize that wounded emotions
and broken hearts.
☻A LOVELY FACT:
Nobody in the world
can have a crystal clear HEART
Because everyone’s HEART
has some scratches scribbled by their DEAR ONES.
☻I reeally luv YU ... Buh YU luv sum 1 else
Wen I Cee U
I cant cloze my eyes
I jus want YU 2 sey how much I care abt YU
Mey I cud sey YU at sum Timee .....
I Luv YU Mor Than My self
☻Some broken hearts, may never mend,
Some memories may never end,
Some wet tears may never dry,
But my love for you will never die…
☻Wen A Very Sweet N Close Person
Goes Too Far Frm Us,
We May Say Or Not Say
But Our Heart Says 2 Thr Heart:
"U Made Me Alone.."
☻The most critical moment in life.
When someone very special hurts you so deeply,
causes tears in your eyes.
and ask, “What happen”?
but you just reply, “NOTHING”
☻LOVE Is medicine,
For any kind of pain.
But
Be sure that…!
There is no medicine in the world,
For the pain given by LOVE.
☻The saddest wordz by a child,
who lost his parents in tsunami,
standing by the sea shore,
Sea i’ll never forgive you,
even if you touch my feet a thousand times.
☻"Separation"
Is A Wound
That
No One Can "Heal"
But
"Rememberance"
Is A Gift
That
No One Can "Steal"
Keep Your Memories Intact
☻My hands never pain
when typing message for you..!
But my heart always in pain,
when there is no reply from you…!
☻Sometimes,
i wish certain people wont tell me
that they love me..
wanna know why?
so that i wont waste my time
believing their
sweetest lies....
☻Love and Death
are two uninvited guests
When will they come..?
no body knows
but
both have similar effects
One takes the Heats
and
Other takes its beat.
☻i wish im a stone..
so when d tym comes dat dey want
me out of deir lyf
dey can throw me as far as dey cud.
i may break into pieces,
but atleast i wont fil any pain..
☻Memories play very confusing role.
Make you laugh when you remember
the time you cried together.
But make you cry when you remember
the time you laughed together.
There are two reasons why I wake up in the morning: my alarm clock and you.
☻There r few things
Tat must be don
B4 one says Goodbye
One's Eyes must
4get another's face
One's Ears must
4get another's voice
One's Mind must
4get another's name.
One's Heart must
4get that he/she had loved
that person more than
his/her own life
☻I really love U ... But U love some1 else
When I C U
I can't close my eyes
I just want U 2 say how much I care about U
May I could say U at someTime .....
I Love U More Than Myself
one who broke my heart.
But I remember him as the
one who teach me
how to live with a broken heart.
☻I cannot erase from my heart
sweet memories of you
thy tongue sharp as a dart
my poor heart eschew.
☻Everyone in your life
will hurt you sooner or later.
But you will have to decide.
What is more important?
The Pain Or The Person…??
☻Have u ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit
and u just pull the scar off of it over and over again...
☻I know,
She was the the most prestigious GIFT.
I ever received!
But!
Sometimes I really feel
I was just a GAME she played!
☻Real Tears Are Not Those
That Fall From Eyes
And Cover The Face,
But Those That Fall From Heart
And Cover The Soul …
☻So I guess that I'm da loser
Cause u hav found some1 new
But I'm still here, still all alone
Just crying over u
☻When I was a kid.
I wanted to grow up soon.
Now that I grown up,
I realize that wounded emotions
and broken hearts.
☻A LOVELY FACT:
Nobody in the world
can have a crystal clear HEART
Because everyone’s HEART
has some scratches scribbled by their DEAR ONES.
☻I reeally luv YU ... Buh YU luv sum 1 else
Wen I Cee U
I cant cloze my eyes
I jus want YU 2 sey how much I care abt YU
Mey I cud sey YU at sum Timee .....
I Luv YU Mor Than My self
☻Some broken hearts, may never mend,
Some memories may never end,
Some wet tears may never dry,
But my love for you will never die…
☻Wen A Very Sweet N Close Person
Goes Too Far Frm Us,
We May Say Or Not Say
But Our Heart Says 2 Thr Heart:
"U Made Me Alone.."
☻The most critical moment in life.
When someone very special hurts you so deeply,
causes tears in your eyes.
and ask, “What happen”?
but you just reply, “NOTHING”
☻LOVE Is medicine,
For any kind of pain.
But
Be sure that…!
There is no medicine in the world,
For the pain given by LOVE.
☻The saddest wordz by a child,
who lost his parents in tsunami,
standing by the sea shore,
Sea i’ll never forgive you,
even if you touch my feet a thousand times.
☻"Separation"
Is A Wound
That
No One Can "Heal"
But
"Rememberance"
Is A Gift
That
No One Can "Steal"
Keep Your Memories Intact
☻My hands never pain
when typing message for you..!
But my heart always in pain,
when there is no reply from you…!
☻Sometimes,
i wish certain people wont tell me
that they love me..
wanna know why?
so that i wont waste my time
believing their
sweetest lies....
☻Love and Death
are two uninvited guests
When will they come..?
no body knows
but
both have similar effects
One takes the Heats
and
Other takes its beat.
☻i wish im a stone..
so when d tym comes dat dey want
me out of deir lyf
dey can throw me as far as dey cud.
i may break into pieces,
but atleast i wont fil any pain..
☻Memories play very confusing role.
Make you laugh when you remember
the time you cried together.
But make you cry when you remember
the time you laughed together.
There are two reasons why I wake up in the morning: my alarm clock and you.
☻There r few things
Tat must be don
B4 one says Goodbye
One's Eyes must
4get another's face
One's Ears must
4get another's voice
One's Mind must
4get another's name.
One's Heart must
4get that he/she had loved
that person more than
his/her own life
☻I really love U ... But U love some1 else
When I C U
I can't close my eyes
I just want U 2 say how much I care about U
May I could say U at someTime .....
I Love U More Than Myself
Broken heart messages
☻I remember him not as the
one who broke my heart.
But I remember him as the
one who teach me
how to live with a broken heart.
☻I cannot erase from my heart
sweet memories of you
thy tongue sharp as a dart
my poor heart eschew.
☻Everyone in your life
will hurt you sooner or later.
But you will have to decide.
What is more important?
The Pain Or The Person…??
☻Have u ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit
and u just pull the scar off of it over and over again...
☻I know,
She was the the most prestigious GIFT.
I ever received!
But!
Sometimes I really feel
I was just a GAME she played!
☻Real Tears Are Not Those
That Fall From Eyes
And Cover The Face,
But Those That Fall From Heart
And Cover The Soul …
☻So I guess that I'm da loser
Cause u hav found some1 new
But I'm still here, still all alone
Just crying over u
☻When I was a kid.
I wanted to grow up soon.
Now that I grown up,
I realize that wounded emotions
and broken hearts.
☻A LOVELY FACT:
Nobody in the world
can have a crystal clear HEART
Because everyone’s HEART
has some scratches scribbled by their DEAR ONES.
☻I reeally luv YU ... Buh YU luv sum 1 else
Wen I Cee U
I cant cloze my eyes
I jus want YU 2 sey how much I care abt YU
Mey I cud sey YU at sum Timee .....
I Luv YU Mor Than My self
☻Some broken hearts, may never mend,
Some memories may never end,
Some wet tears may never dry,
But my love for you will never die…
☻Wen A Very Sweet N Close Person
Goes Too Far Frm Us,
We May Say Or Not Say
But Our Heart Says 2 Thr Heart:
"U Made Me Alone.."
☻The most critical moment in life.
When someone very special hurts you so deeply,
causes tears in your eyes.
and ask, “What happen”?
but you just reply, “NOTHING”
☻LOVE Is medicine,
For any kind of pain.
But
Be sure that…!
There is no medicine in the world,
For the pain given by LOVE.
☻The saddest wordz by a child,
who lost his parents in tsunami,
standing by the sea shore,
Sea i’ll never forgive you,
even if you touch my feet a thousand times.
☻"Separation"
Is A Wound
That
No One Can "Heal"
But
"Rememberance"
Is A Gift
That
No One Can "Steal"
Keep Your Memories Intact
☻My hands never pain
when typing message for you..!
But my heart always in pain,
when there is no reply from you…!
☻Sometimes,
i wish certain people wont tell me
that they love me..
wanna know why?
so that i wont waste my time
believing their
sweetest lies....
☻Love and Death
are two uninvited guests
When will they come..?
no body knows
but
both have similar effects
One takes the Heats
and
Other takes its beat.
☻i wish im a stone..
so when d tym comes dat dey want
me out of deir lyf
dey can throw me as far as dey cud.
i may break into pieces,
but atleast i wont fil any pain..
☻Memories play very confusing role.
Make you laugh when you remember
the time you cried together.
But make you cry when you remember
the time you laughed together.
There are two reasons why I wake up in the morning: my alarm clock and you.
☻There r few things
Tat must be don
B4 one says Goodbye
One's Eyes must
4get another's face
One's Ears must
4get another's voice
One's Mind must
4get another's name.
One's Heart must
4get that he/she had loved
that person more than
his/her own life
☻I really love U ... But U love some1 else
When I C U
I can't close my eyes
I just want U 2 say how much I care about U
May I could say U at someTime .....
I Love U More Than Myself
one who broke my heart.
But I remember him as the
one who teach me
how to live with a broken heart.
☻I cannot erase from my heart
sweet memories of you
thy tongue sharp as a dart
my poor heart eschew.
☻Everyone in your life
will hurt you sooner or later.
But you will have to decide.
What is more important?
The Pain Or The Person…??
☻Have u ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit
and u just pull the scar off of it over and over again...
☻I know,
She was the the most prestigious GIFT.
I ever received!
But!
Sometimes I really feel
I was just a GAME she played!
☻Real Tears Are Not Those
That Fall From Eyes
And Cover The Face,
But Those That Fall From Heart
And Cover The Soul …
☻So I guess that I'm da loser
Cause u hav found some1 new
But I'm still here, still all alone
Just crying over u
☻When I was a kid.
I wanted to grow up soon.
Now that I grown up,
I realize that wounded emotions
and broken hearts.
☻A LOVELY FACT:
Nobody in the world
can have a crystal clear HEART
Because everyone’s HEART
has some scratches scribbled by their DEAR ONES.
☻I reeally luv YU ... Buh YU luv sum 1 else
Wen I Cee U
I cant cloze my eyes
I jus want YU 2 sey how much I care abt YU
Mey I cud sey YU at sum Timee .....
I Luv YU Mor Than My self
☻Some broken hearts, may never mend,
Some memories may never end,
Some wet tears may never dry,
But my love for you will never die…
☻Wen A Very Sweet N Close Person
Goes Too Far Frm Us,
We May Say Or Not Say
But Our Heart Says 2 Thr Heart:
"U Made Me Alone.."
☻The most critical moment in life.
When someone very special hurts you so deeply,
causes tears in your eyes.
and ask, “What happen”?
but you just reply, “NOTHING”
☻LOVE Is medicine,
For any kind of pain.
But
Be sure that…!
There is no medicine in the world,
For the pain given by LOVE.
☻The saddest wordz by a child,
who lost his parents in tsunami,
standing by the sea shore,
Sea i’ll never forgive you,
even if you touch my feet a thousand times.
☻"Separation"
Is A Wound
That
No One Can "Heal"
But
"Rememberance"
Is A Gift
That
No One Can "Steal"
Keep Your Memories Intact
☻My hands never pain
when typing message for you..!
But my heart always in pain,
when there is no reply from you…!
☻Sometimes,
i wish certain people wont tell me
that they love me..
wanna know why?
so that i wont waste my time
believing their
sweetest lies....
☻Love and Death
are two uninvited guests
When will they come..?
no body knows
but
both have similar effects
One takes the Heats
and
Other takes its beat.
☻i wish im a stone..
so when d tym comes dat dey want
me out of deir lyf
dey can throw me as far as dey cud.
i may break into pieces,
but atleast i wont fil any pain..
☻Memories play very confusing role.
Make you laugh when you remember
the time you cried together.
But make you cry when you remember
the time you laughed together.
There are two reasons why I wake up in the morning: my alarm clock and you.
☻There r few things
Tat must be don
B4 one says Goodbye
One's Eyes must
4get another's face
One's Ears must
4get another's voice
One's Mind must
4get another's name.
One's Heart must
4get that he/she had loved
that person more than
his/her own life
☻I really love U ... But U love some1 else
When I C U
I can't close my eyes
I just want U 2 say how much I care about U
May I could say U at someTime .....
I Love U More Than Myself
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